Bolding the ones I have, italics if I'm not sure, comments in brackets, if applicable.
A. Differences in perception (at least 3)
1. Sensory defensiveness (ie, complaints or avoidance of any of the following: loud noises or places, bright lights, textures (food or object/clothing), tastes, smells, touch)
2. Sensory seeking (ie, stims or stimming behaviour such as rocking, flapping, finger flicking, hair twirling, spinning objects, etc or actively desiring any of the following: deep pressure or touch, vestibular sensation [swings, spinning in any context, etc], specific smells, tastes, or textures)
3. Auditory processing difficulties
4. Unusual, awkward, or delayed motor skills, or asymmetry between gross and fine motor skills (ie, clumsy but with strong fine motor skills, good gross motor skills with poor hand-writing or table skills, strong skills in a special-interest related area but poor overall [such as an ability to manipulate small objects but poor handwriting])
5. A reduced or lack of conscious awareness and/or use of allistic (not autistic) nonverbal behaviour and communication such as facial expression, gesture, and posture. This criterion should not exclude persons who have learnt to read or otherwise comprehend nonverbal behaviour by rote learning, particularly adults. Intentional learning to overcome an inherent difficulty in comprehension is supportive of this criterion. It should also not exclude persons who have been taught to use nonverbals to be less visibly different. In such cases, internal report of difficulty should take precedence over apparent behaviour.
B. Differences in cognition (at least 3, one of which must be 1 or 2)
1. Difficulty in beginning or ending (at least 1):
- Perseverative thoughts or behaviours
- Needing prompts (visual, verbal, hand-over-hand, etc) to begin or finish a task [Sometimes. Brushing my teeth, hand-over-hand me or it's just not happening. And others, but that is the persistent one. Every godamn day.]
- Difficulties planning complex activities
- Difficulty switching between activities
- Lack of apparent startle response
- Preference for sameness (same food, same clothes, same travel routes, etc)
- Problems with pronoun use that are developmentally inappropriate
- A reduced or lack of awareness of tone in self (ie, speaks in a monotone, childish, or otherwise unusual manner) and/or others (ie, does not perceive sarcasm [Sometimes. I have learnt to ask.] or follow implied prompts , responds to rhetorical statements and questions in earnest)
- A reduced or lack of awareness of volume (ie, speaks too loud or too quietly for the situation)[Always.]
- No functional language use (includes sign, PECS, spoken, written, and any other communicative language regardless of form)
- Echolalia [Insert linkage when you have written that thing about echo echo echo.]
- Mutism in some or all situations
- Uses scripts instead of spontaneous language (these may also be delayed echolalic in nature [Not always, but often.])
4. Asymmetry of cognitive skills[Executive dysfunction galore, and I have, literally, two ADLs.]
5. Talents in any pattern recognition, including music, mathematics, specific language structures, puzzles, and art (any one meets this criterion, not all must be present)
6. A tendency to focus on details instead of the broader picture, across contexts.
C. These differences cause impairment and/or distress in at least one context (ie, school, work, home), which may be variable over time. Impairment or distress may be defined variably, including meltdowns, anxiety, depression, a pervasive sense of not fitting in, and compulsive behaviours. It is necessary to remember that while the symptoms are not necessarily disabling in themselves, the social response to these symptoms can be disabling. The impairment or distress may be historical, with appropriate evidence to support this claim (ie, a documented history of meltdowns as a child, and only mild anxiety as an adult), as distress may decrease over time and with education.
D. Symptoms should be present in early childhood [I suppose, considering childhood diagnosis, but what do I know?], but may not be noticable until social demands outpace compensatory skills, at any age. [Like many of us, I was diagnosed at a rather young age, but wasn't -told- about my dx until far older. By that time I had figured it out on my own.]